Let's be real. People aren't outright saying they love you the first chance they get. It's just not the modern way, unfortunately. The signs will be there though. Little indicators that they are besotted by you. Here are 5 signs that someone is in love with you.

1. FUTURE FOCUSED

They include you in their future plans. They aren't afraid or avoidant about talking and planning their future, and you are an integrated part of it. You never have to prompt or remind them you exist and question where you fit into their grand schemes.

2. TRUE SELF SURFACES 

A relationship shouldn't feel like an audition for a character role... All parties need to be themselves. Otherwise, who are you falling for? A fictional character? If they feel comfortable being their true self around you, that's a really good indicator they may be falling for you.

3. TIME + EFFORT - PROMPTING = LOVE

They invest considerable time and effort into being with you. You shouldn't have to beg for this. They generally just go out of their way to make you feel seen, heard, and appreciated.

4. FIGHTING FAIR

Even when you argue or fight, there is still respect and care present. They want to know where you're coming from and understand how/why you're hurt. They don't fight to be right. Remember it's you vs the issue, not each other!

5. ATTENTIVENESS

They are present, attentive, and genuinely interested in what you have to share. They listen intently, not just for their chance to speak. They recall even the little things you have said and absolutely remember the important things!

Now while these 5 signs someone is in love with you aren’t a guarantee, they are an excellent indicator that there is a deep connection and an immense amount of care within this dynamic. Open the conversation up, and probe with comments like, ‘I really love it when you do X, Y, and Z for me. It makes me feel cared for.’

Hopefully, they will be receptive to this and you can discuss how each other truly feels. Maybe the L-word bomb will drop! Anyway, my fingers are crossed for you two! Love is such a beautiful and delicate thing. Be careful with one another lovebirds!